Falling in love with Japan is so easy.
Being there was so different from living in China. I’ve already written entries and entries about ways that China is often so hard to love – it’s in the obliviousness of people around me, the questionable rice triangle filling at FamilyMarts (I could have sworn the label said tuna, not baby paste), or the subway body-surfers. Even in Japan, the Chinese tourists stand out, like the gaggle of middle-aged women who used water from a sacred waterfall to fill their water bottles.
But Japan is different. I’ve been in Kyoto for a few days and I feel enraptured by smiling and bowing people around me. Kyoto is so wonderfully quiet. There are vending machines (selling warm drinks!) on every corner, and a certain regard for strangers (a polite, distant regard, because we are, after all, in Japan) that is missing in the Mainland.
We’ve spent our days going to see temples and bamboo forests (with a 160m straight hike up to see some baby monkeys!), trying to navigate the narrow streets, and being surrounded by girls dressed in yukatas, and sliding wooden doors. We’ve also been sleeping/eating/having dessert/generally spending a lot of time on the floor. I’ve been able to gather that Japanese people love the floor, and that tatami mats are not the most comfortable thing to sleep on.
One thing that I’ve absolutely loved about being in Kyoto is this sense of ritual – there’s a small thing you do before entering a temple that involves cleansing yourself in front of the sacred space. You take a wooden ladle from a stream and use your right hand to wash your left, then wash your right hand with your left, rinse your mouth, and then the ladle itself. Logistically, it doesn’t make much of a difference (I mean, we’re not really sure how clean the spring water is), but we’ve tried to do it each time we’ve entered anywhere sacred, partially out of respect and partially because, well, it keeps your hands clean. Kyoto is full of these little rituals. You’re constantly bowing (but then again we’re already doing that just by being in Japan). There are bells to ring, prayer jars to shake, large stones to mentally weigh and pick up, fountain water to spray on your cheeks, god and goddess heads to rub, and rocks to walk to blind-folded. Deep down, I don’t think I actually believe in any of that stuff, but I love doing these little things because it makes the space around you feel a little more holy, and a little more beautiful. And all of Japan is filled with these little rituals, so eventually you start thinking everything is sacred. And something about that is just so extraordinary.
Frivolous Monsters says
So Japan uses the pint? I know we’ve held onto it for milk and beer, but it’s gone apart from that. I guess America doesn’t have it, and I never imagined what people like the Japanese would use. I wonder where they got it from and who introduced it.
maria says
I’m actually not sure if Japan used the Imperial pint, I had just assumed, which is a little silly. Have you ever read Consider the Fork? It’s written by Bee Wilson and talks about the silliness of modern measures (particularly the american cup!)
Frivolous Monsters says
No, but I boggle at the stupidity of any recipe – perhaps unfairly as I’m in a different land which does things differently – that uses cups. I won’t touch those recipes that involves “cups” as I have no clue.
maria says
I think you’d really love the book – Bee Wilson has a very similar opinion 🙂 She talks about the ways recipes developed but also how we in the States came to use cups, which still doesn’t really make sense haha
Frivolous Monsters says
I’ve found a cheap copy on the internet so I’ve ordered it and will give it a go!
maria says
Let me know what you think of it 🙂
thenomadicpanda says
This looks great!! I love Japan 🙂 I’m planning my first trip there for next year April!! Kyoto is on my list!
maria says
Kyoto is incredibly beautiful! I didn’t like Tokyo as much, probably because I’m coming from another crowded city, but Kyoto was just absolutely picturesque
CrazyChineseFamily says
I am really looking forward to visit Japan someday soon (maybe next year) to see for myself how different expperince it is that being in China 🙂
maria says
It’s incredibly different! Japan is eerily quiet compared to China. On our flight back on China Eastern was probably the loudest it got all week :O
CrazyChineseFamily says
It was pretty strange for me when I flew for the first time to China as the plane was filled it’s Chinese, very noisy Chinese 🙂